| | First Infatuation Trumps Grudging Respect?
I've been in three monogamous relations with none ending acrimoniously. My current boyfriend of 13 years knows that I would go back to my prior boyfriend who was murdered if I could. I would consider getting back together with my first girlfriend if my current boyfriend weren't around, but I think and hope she might have been better off in another relationship. We remained friends for a decade after we split, but she moved to the West Coast in 2000 and we haven't spoken since.
I am curious how many very good long-term relationships you have had, and if they have ended well? In Kira's case, the only hint is that she was infatuated with Leo immediately, while she had to fall for Andrei after some time. I tend to believe in loyalty to a partner. I always found Dagny's leaving Rearden for Galt improbable - or at least I wouldn't do it if I really loved Rearden and wasn't just having an affair with a good friend. Galt was too much of a non-entity for me since he only appears openly in the end of the book. He is more of a faceless disembodied voice than a flesh and blood man. Rand was thinking of him the whole time she wrote the book, so to her he was real. But as readers, he was kept a surprise and an anti-climax so far as I'm concerned.
There are also other factors. Leo may have smelled better. The sex may have been better. She most likely saw Andrei as tragically compromised. She had the boat-flight in common with Leo. Since the book is just a book, all this is speculation. The only way to answer the question in the real world is to live it out.
Ted Keer
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